Chance Wayne Wilcox

TODAY, March 24, 1 YEAR AGO, AT 8:30 PM, CHANCE WAS SO SELFISHLY TAKEN FROM THIS EARTH.  HE HAD SO MANY PLANS, AND HE EVEN SPOKE OF SOME OF THOSE PLANS THAT DAY WHEN I LAST SPOKE WITH HIM AT 7:38 PM.  HE WAS HAPPY, HE WAS IN A GREAT MOOD AND READY TO JUST GET HOME, NEVER KNOWING, THAT IN LESS THAN ONE HOUR FROM THAT CALL, GOING HOME WAS NOT TO BE.  I STILL REMEMBER THAT PHONE CALL AND THE COMPLETE DISBELIEF AND DENIAL!  HOW COULD THAT BE, I JUST SPOKE WITH HIM.....THE SADNESS THAT HAS TAKEN MYSELF AND MY FAMILY OVER SINCE THAT MOMENT, WILL FOREVER BE WITHIN US.  CHANCE YOU WILL BE MISSED AND NEVER FORGOTTEN, THE REMAINDER OF OUR LIVES.  LOVE YOU AND MISS YOU, MOM

I JUST WANT EVERYONE THAT KNEW CHANCE TO TAKE TIME OUT FROM THEIR DAY TODAY TO SAY A PRAYER FOR HIM AND HIS FAMILY!! IT HAS BEEN A YEAR TODAY THAT HE WAS SO UNFAIRLY TAKEN FROM THOSE OF US THAT LOVE HIM.  MANY DAYS I MISS CHANCE BEAUSE I KNOW THAT ANY TIME I WOULD NEED HIM HE WOULD BE THERE. NOT ONLY WOULD HE BE THERE BUT HE WOULD KNOW JUST WHAT TO SAY TO MAKE YOU SMILE OR AT LEAST DRINK A BEER WITH YOU...LOL I KNOW MY SWEET ANGEL IS IN HEAVEN LOOKING DOWN ON US ALL AND SINGING WITH THE ANGELS.

IT MAKES ME SAD THE ONES THAT DON'T GET INVOLVED WITH PARENTS AGAINST ROLL OVER ACCIDENTS (PARA) AND (SAD).  CHANCE WOULD HAVE NEVER FORGOT ANYONE OF US!!  HE WAS A GOOD FRIEND TO US ALL SO PAY YOUR RESPECTS TO HIM TODAY AND LET HIS FAMILY KNOW THAT THEY HAD A BEAUTIFUL SON.  I MISS YOU CHANCE AND I WILL LOVE YOU FOREVER AND NOT A DAY LESS. RIDE THAT RAIN DROP AND I KNOW WE WILL MEET AGAIN SOMEDAY.

LOVE,

LINDSEY

After reading Amber's memory of the cows at the rodeo, reminded me of when you and the girls (Amber, Tiff and Steff) were little, the horses at Mimi and Papa's the girls used to love to feed them.  NOT YOU!  You would stand about 100 feet from the fence line, with your hand full of hay, and say "here horsy horsy", but you would not go hand feed them yourself!  We used to stand there and just laugh at you!  SO CUTE!

 

And then when we would go to rodeo you would insist on going to the fair first and playing all the games where you could win animals because you were good at it and ALWAYS won big stuffed animals.  But then, we would end up hauling them around entire evening.  LOL  Then of course, you AND Amber both would want to ride the crazy rides, knowing you didn't like it.  So I would hesitantly let you ride them, KNOWING you would get scared and want off.  Well, each and every time, you two got so scared they would have to stop the rides and let you off!!  You and Amber would be hanging on each other for dear life. 

The rodeo is coming up and it made me think back to you and animals wel livestock mainly HA HA. We were little and you were so afraid of horses and cows. Dad took us to the rodeo livestock and he keep joking with you that a cow was behind you and you finally got upset and stopped believing him. Well they have a runner in the middle of the areans that they walk the livestock down. Dad was trying to tell you to move there were cows coming BUT you did not believe him you stayed there then a cow nudged you and you thought it was dad until it happened again you turned around and saw that cow and TOOK off running. Dad had to go after you but could not leave me and the food behind so he was trying his best to do all of it, it was funny. Then one time he told you he would put a $20.00 bill in the pasture by his house and if you went out to get it you could have it YOU WOULD not do it. So funny. I am going to take kids this year I wonder how they will react. Lukas is JUST like you in so many ways and afraid of animals is one of them.

 

HA HA Mia mom's (little puppy) scares him it is funny we just laugh he freaks out over this tiny dog.. Just like you!!!!

I think of you everyday but some days more than others. Remember when you were a baby,our precious baby boy, and how much fun we had.I'm so glad we had that time with you.It rained this week end and thought of all the drops of rain you had to ride. I could hear you laugh and sing.You could sing so well. There are so many memories in such a short span of years but enough to last us a lifetime. You could charm the birds out of tree when you wanted to and think of you everytime I back out the driveway.Can hear you say clickit or ticket. You were such a fanatic about your seat belt, which I was so glad. You were and are our Valentine now and forever.Love and Kisses. Fly with the angels.

Wishing you a Sweet and Happy Valentine's Day Chance!!!!

 

Happy Valentine's!!!  I remember when you were just a young boy and you always loved Valentine's and would gather some of your prized possessions and always try and give them away to girls! I forever miss and love you. Hope you have a sweet Valentine in heaven.  Love, Mom

MERRY CHRISTMAS. Thinking of you and giving you hugs. Know you are celebrating every day and watching over everyone. You were a care giver. We will be seeing Harlie and Lukas tomorrow.It's

a quite day for us. Love and miss you but flying with the angels and know you have all new friends

Kisses and hugs and our never ending unconditional love. XXoo

I was thinking about Christmas and remember when all of you were little and how excited you would be. One Christmas I was brave enough I took all of you to the mall to do your Christmas shopping.I

think each one of you had $10.00. You  wanted to go to the jewelry store to buy your Mama a big

diamond. $10.00 was a fortune to you. We went and you  picked out a diamond ring and so excited about buying it. The sales lady told you how much it was and you were amazed. You said I don't have near enough money for that. But as always you accepted that and bought her something else. I just hugged you so hard as the thought was so sweet. There are other memories to write about late.