Chance Wayne Wilcox

How are you and your family doing? I never had alot of friends growing up. When I met Chance in 2002 we hung out and became really close. Over the years Chance and I became really close with one another almost like brothers! Chance was the only friend Close to me that understood me and all the hardships that I was going through. I remember I saw him over at Walmart off of 249@ Spring Cypress 2 days before he passed,we talked and caught up with one another. The Last thing I told him was how much I enjoyed our Friendship & how sorry I was for never being around as much as I would like to have been. I Miss and Love Chance with all my Heart!! I feel as though I'm going to wake up from this Horrific Dream and everything never happened. Once again thank you for the invite. Take care and be safe.


Michael Chavarria

I really hope that you know that I truly loved and still love Chance with all my heart. He knew because in our last conversation I told him how much he meant to me and how much I loved him. I almost broke his heart and then I realized how much I wanted him to be every part of mine and my children's life. I will forever cherrish my last conversation with him. I am so glad to be able to continue to be in touch with you. You were Chance's world. He always talked about his momma. He loved you more than anything and he let people know it. Oh, and he wanted your old Passat really bad and his plan was to try to talk you into letting him have it....lol.

You know, I don't think Chance ever knew a stranger. When he passed I found out we actually had a lot of mutual friends that I didn't even know we had. One of my coworkers had even gone to high school with him. I always knew Chance had a wide variety of friends, but I never realized just how many people's lives he touched until afterwards. And he was always the most and very respectful! A couple of times we were all hangin out he answered my cell phone when my mom called and  he just talked with her like he knew her all his life and for 5 or 10 minutes or so and he had never even met her! The weekend before his trip we were supposed to go see Brad Paisley at the rodeo but at the last minute plans changed and I remember my mom was so disappointed because she was so looking forward to finally meeting him. She was very glad I had such a good friend that he was so protective of me.

SHELLI,

ITS FUNNY YOU SAID SOMETHING THE OTHER DAY ABOUT CHANCE'S LEATHER JACKET. I KNOW I HAVE MENTIONED IT ON HIS PAGE A LONG TIME A GO BUT THAT JACKET IS WHAT MADE CHANCE, CHANCE. I MISS SEEING HIM IN THAT JACKET. YOU KNOW I THINK HE WORE A LEATHER JACKET SINCE JR HIGH SCHOOL. I WOULD LOVE TO SEE IT SOMETIME. YOU KNOW HOW MUCH I CARED FOR CHANCE AND EVERYONE HAS THERE OWN MEMORIES OF CHANCE MINE WAS HIM IN THE LEATHER JACKET. I MISS HIM SO MUCH IM STILL WAITING ON IT TO GET EASIER OR DIFFRENT BUT ITS NOT IM STILL ANGRY AND VERY SAD. EVERYTIME I GO TO HIS PAGE I CRY. TRUE FRIENDS ARE HARD TO FIND AND CAN NEVER BE REPLACED!! I THANK CHANCE HE HAS BROUGHT ME YOU CAUSE YOU TOO ARE A SPECIAL FRIEND TO ME AND HAVE MADE AN IMPACT ON ME THAT I WILL NEVER FORGET. I THINK CHANCE KNEW I NEEDED YOU TO TALK TO AND HELP ME HEAL AND MAYBE THE SAME FOR YOU. HE HAS HIS WAYS..LOL BUT WHAT HE DID LETTING US MEET WAS A BLESSING.

LINDSEY

You know, I just logged on to my page. As soon as it loaded I saw that beautiful face of his on the mood update. My heart just sank into my stomach and tears are pouring down my face. It was almost like I thought he had written something on here himself. It still hurts soooo bad that he is gone. Please continue to fight for him.

xoxo,
Nikki

I know you won't get this babe, but I really miss you. It's so hard trying to get used to you not being around. I have so many regrets from the past 5 years and it's hard to remember the good things sometimes. You were it for me. I never told you that. When everything in the world was going wrong, you were who I called. When everything was going right you were the first to know. Just yesterday something was going pretty rough and I picked up my phone out of habit and searched for your name. Then it hit me; you wouldn't answer. I can't count the times in the past week that I've thought about calling your phone just to hear your voice. I miss it so much. I miss your smile and your jokes. I know your up there looking down on me and you will give me the strength I need to deal with this. I'm sorry I didn't come to your service. I know it's stupid to apologize on here, but I know you will see it from up there. I hope you understand. I wanted to so bad, but I couldn't force myself to go. I don't want to remember you like that. Laying still in that box isn't you. Your the guy who tosses and turns all night and twitches his foot cuz he can't stay still when he's trying to fall asleep. I want to remember you the way you looked the last time we saw each other and you waved goodbye to me from your driveway. The thought of you always made me smile, and now that smile is a little sad. Me and you, we woulda made it work. I wish you could have met my family, and me yours. Mine would have loved you. I was going to ask you to go with me to my brother's wedding in August; it would have just felt right. I know you would have said yes. This last week I have been so confused by what I'm feeling. And ashamed at times. I miss you so much it hurts, but for a while I was so mad.  I was mad at the people who hit yall cuz yall did nothing wrong and there was nothing you could have done to prevent it. What made me feel the worst was I was mad at God for taking you so soon. You had so much left to do and you were doing so great at getting it done. You had come so far since we met. You were always an amazing guy, but you did a lot of growing up in the past years. I hope you realize by all the people that showed up to your service, that you were so loved.   I wish the last months of your life weren't spent dealing with someone else's mess up, but you were taking it in astonishing stride. The hardest part to grasp is that I talked to you just 15 minutes before you left us. It really makes me realize just how precious every moment and every conversation really is. I didn't want to learn that by you being an example though. I'm thankful that we were back on good terms and you knew that I didn't hate you. Truth is I loved you. And even though I didn't tell you that night, I know you knew. You always knew. I woulda spent the rest of my life regretting my anger had we not cleared the air. You were very special to me from the day we met, and I will never forget the memories we made. You will always have a place reserved just for you in my heart. I miss you more and more everyday, but I know the pain will fade eventually. You're in a better place where no one can hurt you now. I love you Chance. R.I.P. Try not to give em to much hell up there.

Hi Shelli, this is Heather Siems. I am the one you contacted a few weeks after Chance's passing. I had left a few voicemails on his phone and did not know he had passed and you contacted me to let me know what had happened. We had talked a few times after that because I had asked you for a DVD of the pictures and the memories you had put together for everyone to remember Chance. After giving you my address I don't believe we had talked again. Chance's was a very good friend of mine whom I had spoke within at least twice a week for the last year or so. I met him about two years ago and had stayed very close with him. Always had wanted to meet you because he spoke very highly of his family but never had gotten around to it. Now I wish I would've tried hard to meet ya'll. Thank you for adding me, I greatly appreciate it because I don't have very many pictures of Chance and his myspace is a great way to remember him by :)

Thanks very much again,
Heather

It seems like just yesterday we were living on Slippery Creek.Time go's by so fast.

I just want you to know we loved Chance like a brother. He was always there for my brother and I.  And he always took up for me in school.  If we weren't at our house, we were at yours (even when we weren't supposed to be...lol) or down the street.

When Ashley told me about Chance's passing it blew me away. I had to leave work early b/c I couldn't stop crying.I had just see him a Big Texas not too long ago. I can't even think of the pain you are going though. As a mother now I would have just lost it. But it makes me cherish every minute of his life.

If you need anything at all please email or call.

Not a day goes by that we don't have a memory of you. You were such a cute sweet boy growing up and full of life. We will never forget some of your antics and what a tease you were. Gransons are special and you certainly were to us. We try to deal with "Why" and come up with the answer, God had a purpose for you and I believe that will be with Para and Sad. I think of the past holidays and you will be missed so much but you will be with us  in memory. Can't express our love and the loss we feel. Know you are in good hands and you are happy. Keep smiling and sending us little messages. Love never ending. MiMi and PaPa